I wrote a book, and it was published.
Wait, what?!
Yes. And it’s a myriad of feelings swirling around about this. Fear, excitement, hesitation, gratitude, humbled, vulnerable, and much, much more.
Let me tell you the story behind the story. And not to be cheesy, (well, maybe a little) but the book is actually called, “The Story Becomes the Song.” I began actually putting it together around 2019, but through some important events in 2020, and the last few months of that year with heavy sadness saying goodbye to my mom for a while, I shut my laptop one day and just couldn’t work on this project any longer. And truly couldn’t conceive of when I could begin again, if ever. I chalked it all up to maybe that work had simply been a work for my own heart. Also, working through the honest to goodness inner dialogue that said, “Who are you anyway? Why would you think you have something worthwhile for others? You are so imperfectly flawed. Just let other’s (who are smarter, better writers, and steadier) share their hope and this work was simply for you.”
But that little tug kept showing up in my heart for maybe the possible insight I could give others from my own struggles. Pain is something we all go through, and I just kept thinking if there’s one little way I can help others, that would mean a lot to me. A way to pay it forward, all the love and support I have been so freely given.
One day as I unboxed some of my mom’s belongings, sat on the floor of my bedroom, surrounded by boxes heaped around of her precious things, I found her last birthday card written to me. “How odd,” I thought. The pink envelope was sealed still; she never gave it to me. I opened it up, through a flood of tears, and read her sweet, large, cursive handwriting, and in it she told me how she loved me, and was proud of me, and she also reflected back on how in childhood I had loved to write stories and told me I should write again. I felt so lost in that moment of time. So many changes had happened in my life so quickly. Everything felt uprooted. Or, like a ship without an anchor, trying to find a safe harbor.
I began work on the book again. Working through edit processes, and feedback from a few sources of continual help on this project. They cheered me on. They encouraged me. They told me the writings helped them and they believed they would help others. They believed in me, when I couldn’t believe in myself.
After working with a few publishing companies, it seemed I kept coming up against the need to alter who I am a little bit, in order to fit for marketing strategies, or brand of the individual company. Some of the alterations were just deal-breakers for me after reflection. So, then, I thought, “Well, I was right. This project was just for me and my healing!” La tee Da. I did feel a little guilt over all my supporters that had invested so much time and continued to cheer me on. All the while, I had begun to work at some point with KDP and an independent publisher, but decided against that, too.
Are you hearing what’s going on in my head at this time, really?
Fear. And not healthy fear. The kind of fear that sneers at you and says, “You’re not enough. See, I told you. You’re not good enough to be seen or heard. Your perspective doesn’t matter. Your story will be judged and rightfully so, you’re just a mess.”
Thennnnnnn, a sermon series began at my church that spoke to me so frankly. My pastor talked about giving our all, from the heart and testimony of our own lives – flawed, forgiven, free, but willing to share it all, for the Love that had changed everything for us. A Love that isn’t about what I have done, or will do, but about how He does it all and changes everything in spite of us. On the final Sunday sermon of this series, I went home, told God, “I hear you.” And I hit the submit button to publish through KDP.
I am a mess. A mess God loves and continues to show His powerful love to, and I hope in some small way, through.
A realization struck me, my ship isn’t meant to be at the harbor. One day, it will. My mom’s is. She is receiving her rest and reward. My ship is meant to sail on, to keep pushing through with whatever my heart and hands have the strength to do, to love those around me.
The book may encourage one person, and if it does. It is so absolutely worth it. I am here today because other people did not hesitate to share their love with me. They didn’t let their own ego, or fear stand in the way of letting me know, that wounds do heal. And there are helpers out there when you have needs. And Love changes everything when you are willing to let it.
So, that’s my story about a story. 🙂
If you would like to purchase my book, here’s a link: https://a.co/d/3PCbpv3 Let me know what you think, if you’d like and have the time.